Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Savor.

Today we had a forum at BYU by a guy named Michael Wesch. I don't feel like looking up/telling you all his awesome credentials. Blah, blah he's a professor somewhere and collaborates with National Geographic. Super cool!

He lived in New Guinea for about 8 years...I can't remember why. Probs for Nat Geo. He talked about how he felt so humbled and lost this sense of self because his whole life his self was built up on media and telling people what he was up to on Facebook, Twitter, whatever. Being so far removed from the so-called social scene that media provides, he had to find himself again. And even though it was hard and so depressing, he focused on the beauty that there was in this. His capacity to learn was so much greater because he was humble and willing.

One day he was crying and went in the mountains by the village. Two guys walked up to him and by the time they reached him were also crying. And they had no idea why Michael was even crying! Because these people in New Guinea don't have social media to connect, ooobviously their ability to connect in person is astounding. There is so much empathy. He put it best: "When there is a shared vulnerability, then empathy blossoms." Isn't that beautiful?

And in our society, our ability for empathy is nearly lost. We're so used to sending our condolences or congratulations over Facebook or via text. What is up with that?!

He talked about savoring the now--where you are, the people you're with. And he shared a video of snowfall in New Zealand in a place where they hardly ever see snow. And it's so cool to see how people savor something so simple!

There is zest in every moment of our lives if we just find it.


4 comments:

  1. YOU HAVE THE GREATEST BLOG ON THE INTERNET

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  2. Hi McCall. I am going to thoroughly miss stalking your blog! I love you!!!!!

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  3. Thank you for this video and this post. MMMMMMM

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  4. McCall, I was sooooooo touched by this post. I love that video that you posted as well--I'll have to tell you a story next time we talk of something I experienced similar to that snow shower. I love you and am so grateful for your wise words!

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